Pluralism has adversely affected how the idea of marriage and its practice build families, in a lot of ways. The reverence given to diversity for what it is, and its ever increasing options in the 'private sphere' at the expense of a sacramental marriage, have led to a different belief system, and ways of fulfilling marriage. To the extent that they have jeopardized that intricate bond that unites an adult male and his adult- bride in holy matrimony, leading to one-flesh union. The lack of this true knowledge of God as to the reason for marriage is the principal cause of the disorder that is now found in families, societies and nations. It is necessary to recover the lost ground and re-establish families, societies and nations on that pat of Life, fine-tuned for unity, and success.